Having a Meal for Engagement: Pesachim 49a
Whether the Meal is a Mitzvah or not: Pesachim 49a
Nature of a 2nd Meal, called "Sivlonot," at which gifts are exchanged: Pesachim 49a
Having this meal on the Intermediate Days of Holidays: Moed Katan 18b
Minimizing business, planting and Engagement/Wedding celebrations if two sets of fasts for rain go unanswered: Megillah 5b
Meal of the Wedding
The Sages were careful, for the Bride's Sake, to make the Groom prepare the wedding meal for at least 3 days: Ketuvot 2a, 3a-b
The Sages were careful, for the Bride's Sake, to make the Groom stay with his wife to gladden her for at least 3 days: Ketuvot 5a, 7a
Marrying, when the Groom's father or Bride's mother died that day: Ketuvot 3b-4a
What happens if the groom's father or bride's mother died on the day of the wedding, and the meal wouldn't be lost if the wedding was postponed: Ketuvot 4a
If a man marries off his son in a given house, it is assumed that he means to transfer ownership of that house to his son: Gittin 14a
One should be modestly secretive about helping fund a wedding: Succah 49b
Minimizing business, planting and Engagement/Wedding celebrations if two sets of fasts for rain go unanswered: Megillah 5b Rabban Gamliel and Rabbi Yehoshua going to purchase an animal for Rabban Gamliel's son's wedding feast: Makkot 14a; Keritot 15a
Gladdening Bride and Groom
The true nature of gladdening the couple: Tos. Succah 25b #4
Prohibition against joining the Feast without gladdening the couple: Berachot 6b
Main reward comes from conversation with them: Berachot 6b
Reward of "5 Kolot" for participation: Berachot 6b
Gd making "Shushvinin" preparations for the wedding meal of Adam and Eve: Eruvin 18b
Making "Shushvinin" preparations to one's inferior: Eruvin 18b
Compared to bringing a Thanks Offering or Rebuilding a ruin in Israel: Berachot 6b
Dancing before the Bride: Ketuvot 16b-17a
"Hinuma" Celebration for a Virginal Bride: Ketuvot 15b, 17b
Giving Kelayot-Candies to Children: Ketuvot 15b
"Kos Shel Besorah," and Definition: Ketuvot 16b
Pouring Oil on the heads of Students at Weddings: Ketuvot 17b
Praise for a Bride as "Above" Make-Up: Ketuvot 17a
Vs. Honor of a A Jewish King: Ketuvot 17a
Vs. Escorting a Corpse to Burial: Ketuvot 17a
Vs. Learning Torah: Ketuvot 17a
Participating in this Mitzvah with due modesty: Makkot 24a
First Week of Marriage
Has legal status of a Holiday: Ketuvot 4a
The Groom sits at the head of the table: Moed Katan 28b
For a Widow/Widower: Ketuvot 7a Mourning in private: Moed Katan 20b, Ketuvot 4a
Isolation of Bride and Groom, if She is menstruating and there was no sexual intercourse yet: Ketuvot 4b
Requirement/Exemption for the Wedding Party in the Mitzvah of living in the "Succah" hut during Succot: Succah 25b
Requirement/Exemption for the Wedding Party in the Mitzvah of the Amidah prayer, the Shema, and the wearing of phylacteries: Succah 25b-26a
Where a parent died on the Wedding Day: Ketuvot 3b-4b
Isolation of Bride and Groom together, where a parent died on the Wedding Day: Ketuvot 4a
Allowing guests to gaze at the Bride: Ketuvot 17a
