The Bride's Response to the Groom's Declaration of Marriage
The bride's right of refusal: Kiddushin 41a
The bride's right to have a Proxy accept: Kiddushin 41a, 41a-42a
What if the bride accepts the money while insisting that it not be for Kiddushin, and then doesn't reiterate that declaration later: Kiddushin 12b
What if the bride threw the money into the sea or a fire, or simply back at him: Kiddushin 8b
What if the bride responds to his offer, "Give it to that dog" where it is [not] hers, or where it is chasing her: Kiddushin 8b
What if the bride responds to his offer, "Give the money to my father/your father/another specific person" [without adding "to guard it for me"]: Kiddushin 8b
What if the bride responds to his offer, "Put the money on a rock," where the rock is not hers, or where they jointly own the rock: Kiddushin 8b
What if the bride responds to his offer, "Give it to that poor person" where that person is [not] dependent on her: Kiddushin 8b
